In Sleep a King — Farewell to Michael Jackson

For those who are too young to remember him at the very height of his career, I’m sorry. There’s no questioning Michael Jackson’s influence on our current pop music and dance culture. His life was somewhat of a tragedy but his talent was a gift. So, in honor of this icon, I’m taking a moment to celebrate that gift.

A few videos.

First a collection of footage that clearly demonstrates the icon’s signature movement style and its relationship to today’s popular dance.

Second, one of my favorite Jackson tunes. It is impossible not to move when you hear a Michael Jackson song. That is the legacy within his body of work and the part of his life and career that will outlive everything else.

This song’s original music video is on YouTube and worth a watch. It is not embeddable. However, you can find it here.

“Thy self thou gavest, thy own worth then not knowing,

Or me, to whom thou gavest it, else mistaking;

So thy great gift, upon misprision growing,

Comes home again, on better judgment making.

Thus have I had thee, as a dream doth flatter,

In sleep a king, but waking no such matter.” – William Shakespeare; Sonnet 87

Farewell, Michael!

Beyond Butterfly Kisses — 12 Tunes for Dancing Daddies and Daughters

Father’s Day is this weekend so in honor of Dance Dads, I’m adding a list of songs that might just be perfect for a father/daughter recital choreography, a wedding dance, or other performances. These range from sentimental to spirited. Hopefully you’ll find something new or a song you’ve never considered before. (And in case you think I’m neglecting these — look for father/son, mother/daughter, and other combinations in the future!)

Father and Daughter — Paul Simon; Surprise

Audiences will enjoy this bouncy tune with its affectionate message without overdosing on sugar:

“I’m gonna watch you shine; Gonna watch you grow
Gonna paint a sign so you’ll always know
As long as one and one is two
There could never be a father who loved his daughter more than I love you”

Daddy — Kristen Chenoweth; Let Yourself Go

This one is a cute jazz number that would be tongue in cheek since the “daddy” in this song is not necessarily a father figure. However, the singer wants “a diamond ring, bracelets, everything” and tells Daddy “You oughta get the best for me.” Play up the superficial stereotype of having Daddy wrapped around his little girl’s (gilded) finger and you could have a cute number on your hands.

My Heart Belongs to Daddy – Sophie Milman; self-titled

There are lots of versions of this song and you could pick one you like but I’m suggesting this version by Sophie Milman because this recent update has a tempo that moves yet maintains the feel of a jazzy standard.

Colorful — Rocco DeLuca; I Trust You To Kill Me

Not an obvious choice, perhaps. The lyrics are ambiguous but couldn’t every father say that his little girl is “the most colorful thing that I’ve seen…”?

Daddy’s Girl — Katey Segal; Room

If you’d prefer something that’s a little bit country, the genre is not wanting for daddy-daughter tunes. But this one from actress Katey Segal may not be as familiar or overdone even though she performed it on the popular sit-com 8 Simple Rules.

She’s a Dancer — Phil Keaggy; Way Back Home

Christian artist Phil Keaggy has a Beatles-esque sound. With lyrics like “As you reach for the sky, love, and pirouette ‘cross the room, just remember that you are my love, and no other can replace the face of you” this one seems pitch-perfect for a dance recital. Keaggy’s lyric is not without Christian references, particularly in the last stanza, so it may not be for everyone but, it is sure to charm most.

To Make You Feel My Love — Billy Joel; Greatest Hits Vol. 3

Lullabye (Goodnight My Angel) — Billy Joel; River of Dreams (or Greatest Hits Vol. 3)

There’s a father/daughter two-for-one deal on this Billy Joel Greatest Hits album. To Make You Feel My Love is actually a Bob Dylan tune and has been covered by numerous artists over the years, including most recently American Idol’s Kris Allen and British singer Adele. These versions are sweet but I’ll always have a sweet spot for Joel’s version. Pick whichever you’d like but a male vocalist will accentuate a fatherly interpretation of this lyric, especially when performed with teen or older dancers.

Lullabye is perhaps more appropriate for choreography pairing a daughter (or daughters) with her father, and could work for both younger or older students. The song has a bittersweetness that any parent in the audience could appreciate.

Sweet Child O’ Mine — Guns n’ Roses; Appetite for Destruction

Dads will feel like the rock stars they are when dancing to this tune. It’s not your average little girl theme but could be a super sweet number all the same.

Winter — Tori Amos; Little Earthquakes

Tori Amos will put a contemporary/lyrical dance spin on the traditional father-daughter dance. It would be interesting to see how fathers could be incorporated into the dance and movement with this one. It is tender without being overly sentimental and if done well might just be a show-stopper.

Wild World — Cat Stevens; Tea for the Tillerman/Greatest Hits (or try the Mr. Big version)

This one may not be specifically written for a daughter but the lyric is close enough that it could work in this setting. Plus, those familiar with the song may enjoy this unique interpretation of a favorite tune.

When The Stars Go Blue — The Coors (with Bono); Dreams: The Ultimate Coors Collection

Again, this lyric is somewhat ambiguous but as a duet that mentions dancing in a wedding gown it could be a lovely father/daughter choreography or wedding dance. Though the Ryan Adams song has been covered by others, I’m partial to The Coors version (and not just because I will be a fan of U2’s Bono “until the stars go blue”) but because of its crisper tempo and the complimentary vocal tone of the duo. This is often found as a live track but the studio version is on the album listed above.

Have your own song suggestions? Add them below!

Children and Dance

Throughout my career as a teacher I have had the opportunity and the pleasure to work with very young dancers. I’ve enjoyed being able to spark imaginations and encourage little ones in their discovery of movement and dance. These young students have taught me a lot too! When working with small children one must break-down and dissect movements that have for years been ingrained in one’s body and mind. It is a process that usually led me to new discoveries about myself, technique, and creativity. Young dancers have also taught me many valuable lessons in patience, working with parents, and not taking myself too seriously!

Some of what I have learned, I have shared in posts here at Dance Advantage. Here are the links and a short description:

Dance of Independence

This article discusses situations a teacher or parent may encounter with the youngest dancers (preschool children) as they begin their dance experience. It offers some solutions on dealing with children who are not willing to participate at first, or hesitant to allow their parent(s) to leave. It also gives parents an idea of what they might encounter with their own child and help prepare them for dealing with their child’s, and possibly their own, feelings of uncertainty.

Creative Dance

I am a strong advocate of utilizing creative dance principles, not only in programs for young children, but for all age groups within a dance school. If you are not familiar with creative dance, its purpose, or its methods, this post serves as an introduction. If you know or have experience with creative dance, this article may assist you in discussing the benefits of creative dance with parents or others, and hopefully encourages you to consider its use for older dancers as well.

Fostering Artistry in Young or Beginning Dancers

This post offers an observation inspired by a post on another blog. The observation that dancers in studios are rarely asked to make art, to make their dancing personal, and to express their own thoughts and feelings through dance. Look for the follow-up to this editorial (long in the making) that will offer some solutions  or suggestions as to how artistry can be fostered in young dancers.

The following posts relate to children and their pursuit of dance as a career. In many other careers, this discussion would not fit in a post about children but dancers often must start early if they want to pursue a life in dance or ballet.

What it Takes: Becoming a Ballerina

More accurately, this post offers insight and links that discuss what it takes to become a professional ballet dancer. It is important for students and parents of students to understand the challenges and pathways to becoming a professional performer in dance. And, in ballet, an early appreciation for the rigors of this pursuit is particularly helpful. Many youngsters dream of a career in ballet, and it is healthy to have some perspective of what that entails so one can make informed decisions. This post has recently been updated and re-vamped, so if you’ve seen this post before, you may want to take another look.

Everyone Starts Somewhere

Just a sweet reminder that everyone, including New York City Ballet dancers, start somewhere.