Today’s guest post is courtesy Vicki Nelson. She and I connected over blogging but discovered a shared appreciation for dance. In addition to her professional experience within higher education, Vicki is the parent of two post-college daughters and one daughter currently in college. She studied dance for many years herself and enjoyed being a dance mom for 18 years. With this article, she’s put into words what a credit dance education, and arguably the arts in general, can be to young adults entering college.
Dance Education May Lead to College Success
As the mother of three daughters, I have spent 18 years as a dance mom. My daughters loved to dance. Each girl took ballet and jazz and one daughter added tap to the mix. We spent a lot of time at the dance studio! Two daughters have now graduated from college and the third is not far behind. No one dances any more.
Was it all a waste of time, money and energy? Of course not! My girls had fun, and learned to love and appreciate the arts. They gained a bit of grace and became more comfortable with their bodies. They made new friends. They had a great role model in their teacher. None of us regrets a minute of the time spent dancing.
However, I’ve come to realize that there are even more important benefits of growing up studying dance once students head off to college.
Qualities Successful Dancers and Students Share
As a college professor I work with college students every day. I see the qualities that successful students have, and I see the qualities that the less successful students lack. I believe that the dance education that my daughters received helped to reinforce many of the important qualities that made them successful in college and will help them succeed in their lives. I’d like to suggest ten of those qualities here.
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Time Management
This may be the single most important quality necessary for success in college. Students who know how to plan ahead, organize, and balance their lives are the students who succeed. Children who grow up adding dance to their weekly activities, especially those who may take several classes each week, must learn to manage their time. They learn to balance, to prioritize, to multitask, to make choices and sacrifices. These lessons will definitely give them an advantage when they get to college.
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Discipline
Anyone who has ever taken a dance class knows that it requires discipline. It requires discipline to show up to class, to control your body, to practice, to focus on the teacher. It requires discipline to give up other things to make room in your life for what is important to you. Students learn, and are able to practice, the discipline of making and following through with choices. When faced with choices in college, these students will be prepared.
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Passion
Students who are involved in a dance program have the opportunity to pursue something that they love. In following their passion, they experience the benefits and the satisfaction that comes from following your heart. Hopefully, when they get to college, they will follow a passion for something – whether or not it is dance. They will commit to something simply because they love it – not necessarily because of a class, or a grade, or a career move. Loving something that you do is important in keeping balance in your life.
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Commitment
Dance students learn that doing anything well requires a commitment. That commitment takes time, energy, sacrifice, and follow-through. Dancers learn to stick with something. You cannot become a dancer over night. It takes time to develop as a dancer. College students, too, need to recognize that some things take time to develop and require a commitment of time, energy and sacrifice. In this often commitment-phobic age, students who know the value of commitment will make a difference – for themselves and for others.
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Hard work
Dance is hard work. As much fun as it may be, as fulfilling and satisfying as it may be, as good as it is for the soul, it is hard work. Dancers learn how to put in the hard work to achieve something. They are not afraid of doing something difficult. They know that they need to tackle a difficult task (or step, or routine) and break it down and work at it. Many college students worry about hard – hard courses, hard instructors, hard majors. Students who are willing, and able, and unafraid, to take on challenges achieve more.
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Technique
Dancers spend much of their time learning to perfect, or at least improve, their technique. They know from experience that doing something well often happens because of all of the small details. A good dancer knows that a beautiful dance grows from good technique. Details matter. Details add up. Details take hard work. Paying attention to the smallest of details can make the difference.
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Skill-building
Dancers understand that there is always room for improvement. No matter how long you have been dancing, no matter how good you are, no matter how clearly you understand a step or how instinctive a move has become, there is always room for improvement. Dancers learn that you never stop growing in your ability, that there is always somewhere to grow. In college, they will continue to strive for something more.
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Criticism
Dance students understand that criticism is not a bad word. They understand that true criticism means helping someone find the best in themselves by giving them feedback. They understand that criticism is good and that good criticism helps them grow. They understand, because they have heard it being given for years, how to give good criticism to others. College students who are able to receive – and use – criticism will gain more from others. College students who know how to constructively criticize others – positively, specifically, non-emotionally – will be able to help others.
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Creativity
Dance is not technique. Dance is not skill. Dance is not discipline or hard work. Although all of those qualities are required, dance is ultimately a creative work of art. Dance students begin to understand that they have something within themselves that they bring to a dance. Dance students begin to understand that dance is greater than they are. It is the ultimate unity of the music, the choreography, the technique and the soul of the dancer that creates the dance. Dancers learn to tap that creative energy within themselves – and they will bring that creativity to all that they do.
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Self Investment
Ultimately, dancers learn to throw themselves completely into whatever they do. They blend the physical, the mental, the emotional, and the spiritual into a greater whole. Students who head off to college understanding, and having experienced, this totality of themselves will be better able to seek and maintain a balance in their lives.
My daughters no longer dance – although I continue to hope that they may return to it some day – but they have reaped countless benefits from their dance experience. The life lessons which they have gained gave them a head start in college – and in life. Current dance students may not yet realize that each time they lace up their pointe shoe, or take their place at the barre, or practice just one more pirouette, they are preparing themselves for life.
Vicki Nelson currently teaches communication at a small liberal arts college and has more than 25 years of experience in higher education as a teacher, academic advisor and administrator. She founded College Parent Central, a website designed to help parents navigate through the college years, to give parents information about how to be productively involved in their student’s college life while finding ways to allow their student to gain independence. Visit Vicki’s website at www.collegeparentcentral.com or contact her at vnelson@collegeparentcentral.com.




Vicki Nelson currently teaches communication at a small liberal arts college and has more than 25 years of experience in higher education as a teacher, academic advisor and administrator. She founded College Parent Central, a website designed to help parents navigate through the college years, to give parents information about how to be productively involved in their student’s college life while finding ways to allow their student to gain independence. Visit Vicki’s website at ![Reblog this post [with Zemanta]](http://img.zemanta.com/reblog_e.png?x-id=cc2cbe85-e70e-40fb-b104-54bc6ebb68cf)



















Thanks for sharing this post, Nichelle. I hope your readers find it helpful in appreciating how many benefits dance students receive from doing something that they love.
I wish I had had your site available when my girls were dancing.
Vicki
Thank you for sharing it with us, Vicki! Your article has received a nice response from the folks on Twitter so far. Thanks also for devoting your time and energy to providing a great resource for parents of college students at your site!
I completely agree with everything Vicki says in this article. I am a recent college graduate and dance was one of the main things that taught me discipline and especially to understand constructive criticism. Saying “thank you” to my teachers whenever they pointed out a flaw and how to fix it, whether it be in a mathematical equation or a grammatical mistake, helped me develop personal connections and understandings with teachers at a freshman level. These relationships continued to build through my years and by the time I graduated, I had mentors and recommendations from professors in multiple departments.
Unlike Vicki’s daughters, I actually kept dance as a major part of my life in college. I majored in it as well as psychology and was on 2 dance companies throughout college. I know a bunch of people who minored in dance as well just to keep it a part of their lives. In the college aspect, I wanted to add this point to Vicki’s article:
Dance and the commitment of dancing keeps college students out of trouble.
While I still partied in college, I didn’t during the week. I only went out on weekend nights or not at all if we were in a rehearsal stage before a performance. Dance is exhausting to a malnourished body and dancers realize this. Even if they don’t at first, caught up in the freshman thrill of freedom, they realize it after an extremely hungover rehearsal/class experience. And while this isn’t full-proof for each college dancer, it really helped me keep my head level and keep my grades up by creating a structure for me throughout my college years. I went to a liberal arts college, so this experience wasn’t at a conservatory of any degree, but I saw similarities in my fellow dancers. If a dancer wanted to grow in college, they had to set boundaries for themselves like no partying during the week, and we did.
Thanks for adding those thoughts, Meggie. The list of benefits just keeps growing, doesn’t it?
Vicki
Nichelle — I just found your Twitter handle and this website. Very nice. I am leaving a comment even though it’s a good six months late.
Vicki — Great article! You said everything I have felt for the last 15 years or so. I cannot think of anything I would add….well. maybe one thing at the end of my comment.
My son and daughter both started dance because I could not leave work in time to pick them up at the studio where their mother was taking recreational classes to continue her high school/college dance interests. So my wife threw them into a tap class for that hour so she could attend her class and I could take them home when their class was over.
That was 15 years ago.
Since then, our son conquered his extreme shyness. Walked away from kids making fun of his dancing. Spent five years in his public school’s pre-professional dance program. Pulled his grades up from “C’s” to “A’s”. And became one of the more popular kids in the school; admittedly easier in an arts-based school that is 75% girls.
His first comment on his first college term was how easy everything seemed compared to the full schedule he had in high school. He spent two years studying electrical engineering before deciding a life in front of a computer monitor was not for him and he followed his dream to become a firefighter and paramedic. He still dances occasionally, mostly choreographing tap pieces (his specialty), but the lessons he learned in the dance studio and rehearsal halls set the stage (pun intended) for his continued success.
Our daughter followed a similar path through high school, even switching from her regular public school to the arts-based school in order to spend more time in technique class (with no additional cost to us!). She also found a love as a school teaching assistant to beginning and intermediate students. Those same lessons kept her organized and successful.
Now she is in the training program at Miami City Ballet and preparing for her shot at a professional ballet career using the same lessons from the dance studio. She handles college classes through an online service with our local Oregon colleges until she settles somewhere as a full-time student and, hopefully in the next year or two, contracted professional.
So I spent way too much time and words on this response, but I want to confirm your observations parallel mine.
Now, for that additional benefit I see–and this one is specially for male dancers. Way too many boys play football and basketball, and now soccer and lacrosse and even squash, to have much hope to earn a scholarship to a premier college. Try dance, especially ballet. It’s unfair to the girls, but colleges will throw money at your feet if you can dance. You can double major, you can graduate with another or additional career in mind. One friend of ours recently graduated from NYU Tisch in dance and Computer Science, he continues to dance and make a solid income.
Nichelle — Thanks for such a great site. Keep up the good work!
Thanks for the comment, Mike. It’s nice to know someone is reading the post – even six months later. I’m glad you found Nichelle’s site.
With only girls in our family, the scholarship advantages for male dancers wasn’t on my radar, but it’s definitely a good one.
Good luck to all of the dancers in your family!
Vicki